Because boys are just plain dumb beings, and to serve as a reminder to myself, THIS page is dedicated to listing IDEAL qualities i see as an ABSOLUTE necessity in my boyfriend. IF you are thinking " what a bhb person she is " then i suggest you just go away, because this is for people who actually care. (= I think this list will just keep growing and growing. Oh well! What's a girl to do?
WELL brace yourselves!
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1* He HAS to be a believer in Christ.
'Cos Jesus is my life. HE is my everything. My special guy HAS to be able to understand and share my stand in my relationship with God. My special guy should be the person who supports, encourages and helps me with my walk with God. And vice versa. Our relationship should ALWAYS be honouring God. Yes, that is how important my GOD is to me. (=
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2* CONNECTION. telepathy. CHEMISTRY.
Whatever you wanna call it. It has to be there. Cliche or not, I am a girl. Girls believe in finding 'THE ONE'. MY ONE has to just connect with me. It has to feel right. We just have to CLICK. I have to feel comfortable around him. I have to be able to be MYSELF around him. Or else, things just will not work yeah?
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3* He has to be a SNAG with specks of bad boy here and there
To heck with bad boys. I reckon sensitive new age guys are the way to go. He has to know when I'm feeling down, be sensitive to the littlest things. BUT of course not to the extreme of being ultra sensitive to nothing-ness. And when I say bad boy, I don't mean the [look-at-me-cos-i-think-i'm-cool] kind. I'm talking bout lil innocent mischief and lil acts of defiance all in the name of FUN! wahahaha! Randomness is the way~
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4* Principles. Character. they make a MAN
My guy has to be one with character. As in, he has to have his principles and not be like those boys who are EASILY swayed by the crowd. Of course, vulgarities spewing outta his mouth is out of the question. 'Cos that's just being uncouth and ah bengs are SO not my thing.
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5* INITIATIVE starts with I
Ok now read that out loud if you are a guy. Don't use the modern girl-and-guy-are-on-the-same-level excuse. PLS! Guys continue using your brains and BE initiative. Don't wait for girls to ask then you do something for her. Or ask her out. SPONTANEOUS! Do we have to teach you?!? haha
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6* My guy has to make me feel SPECIAL!
Yes special! Though it's a known fact that i AM superbly SPECIAL in every single way. It has to be ME. Apart from his mother and maybe his sis or relatives. His EYES are for me! wahahaha. Love shouldn't be jealous, so my guy shouldn't do anything to make me jealous. Makes sense right? (=
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7* It's the lil`est things that make me SMILE (=
Which means the simplest things can make my day. And as my guy, he should have the honour AND make full use of the honour of making me smile! Haha. I'm not those girls who come from wealthy families and are hard to please. All i ask for is tender loving care. AND sincerity. Sincerity is always number 1. Which leads me to...
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8* He MUST be sincere.
'Cos 'I love you' is just 3 words when the heart does not mean it. Words are just words if they are merely said for the sake of saying. BELIEVE me guys. We can sense sincerity. It's a female's intuition. So if you don't mean it, just don't say it. Save it for when you feel it really. Or things maybe even worse yeah?
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9* My special should always be there for me.
Ok, I'm not asking for like 24-hours of attention on me. But I'm saying that my boyfriend should be the one who is there to comfort me when things go wrong. The one who reminds me that God is there. And the one who teaches me, encourages me, and advise me on what to do.
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10* He MUST be [too tuff to puff]
You all should know by now how much i HATE the smell of cigarettes. How i think smoking cramps people's style and how i think smoking should seriously be banned. Therefore, my boyfriend should never be a puffer. NEVER EVER. this is definitely a big NO.
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11* [If he did it to her, he'll do it to you] logic
If a guy dumps his girl for you, most likely than not, he'll dump you for another girl. So? I'll never ever find a guy who is attached and dumps his girl for me. 'Cos its just stuuupid. Girls should unite yeah! GIRL POWer~ woah!
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12* Mutual understanding? affirmative!
Simple. If he don't understand me, and I don't understand him, then what's the point?
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13* No mind games please thank you.
erm. The world is already a confusing enough place for girls like me to live in. Instead of adding onto that, my charming should never ever make me feel totally confused or lost or wadeva. For fun, yeah occasionally is fine. But none of those [its-you-today-her-tomorrow-who's-next]. I mean, DUHH! In the first place, other people should never be involved yeah.
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14* No FHM. No slutty swimsuit girls.
YUCK! For starter's, thats just disgusting. Lusting over woman you can never get. TSK! Like I said before, it's all about ME [in terms of people of the other gender] and no one else.
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15* We need space.
Lovey-dovey or not. I need space. My guy can never be the over posessive kind. He must be ok with me chilling with MY friends. Although we're a couple, our lives should NOT be only about each other. You get my point right?
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16* He must be a mixture.
Yes mixture. Don't eurasian guys look so cute? haha. BUT that's besides the point. I'm saying that my dude has to be all-rounded. Able to both enjoy sports, run around on the netball court wif me and co, AND still be able to put on he's intellectual glasses and turn to the smart dude, who I can discuss subjects and books with me. I need him to be able to 'debate' with me. i cannot resist a challenging friendly debate.
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17* MY love just MUST abosolutely love lil ones!
I want kids!! i don't see how smoe people can just hate having children. I mean just think about it! Watching this tiny lil one entrusted to you by God grow up everyday, think about all the fun you'll have seeing them learn new things and their reaction to new stuf. I think that is just the most beautiful experience one can ever have.
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according to *JANINE